Ensuring you follow all your organisations safeguarding procedures and still relating to Children and Young people in a normal, natural way can be a challenge.
Safeguarding children is important, but can often feel very complex for new volunteers and team members. Here’s some ‘good sense’ guidelines to help those just starting out on your teams
How many workers should take a child to the toilet?
‘I don’t want to get accused of abuse if I go alone but I’ve been told it would be safer if two of us escort the child and we leave the door open.’
It’s important workers are properly appointed and checked out before they begin their job but once they are cleared, we should trust them to get on with it. You could say to another worker, ‘Gemma needs the loo, I’ll take her there.’ Your co-worker doesn’t need to watch your back to check you are not doing something you shouldn’t or be your witness in case of false allegations! Also, children need to feel that their privacy is respected so why shouldn’t the door be closed or nearly closed?
‘I’m trying to arrange for our youth club to attend an event. It means hiring a minibus or taking cars but it’s a nightmare sorting out enough workers to supervise the young people.’
Of course you need to ensure good supervision but unless your young people present serious behavioural problems, thirtyone:eight would suggest the following:
‘I’ve had a phone call from an angry parent who said: “I allowed my 9 year old daughter to go on a trip to the beach and because she’s very fair-skinned, I gave her sun cream and said she should ask a worker to put it on for her. When she returned home, her back was blistered. Apparently my daughter asked a worker to rub the cream in but she refused on the grounds of child protection.’
‘One of the children at Sunday Club was really upset today because his cat got run over. I really wanted to give him a hug but I was afraid in case it was against the rules.’
Touch is important. Without it, children die inside. If we end up with a ‘no touch technique’ like a nurse with disposable gloves and forceps we’ve lost the plot. What we have to ensure is that touch is never abusive or intrusive. This is what thirtyone:eight says: Taking care of touching
A child or young person wants a ‘quiet chat’
‘Last week at club, Emma was very upset about something. She said she wanted to talk to me. Rather than being with her on my own, I had to call another worker to come and listen and she then clammed up. What should I have done?’
Poor Emma, hoping for a quiet chat and she’s landed with two workers, one of whom she’d (perhaps) never open up to on a sensitive subject! It would have been better to have told the group leader, ‘Emma wants to chat. I’ll just be in the sitting room (or wherever) if you need me.’
Afterwards write in your activity’s log book a note of the conversation. If it was a child protection concern, make a brief note in the log book, ‘Emma came to talk to me tonight. See separate report in her file.’ That detailed report, spelling out what she said, how you responded, what led to the conversation and what action you took, should be shared with the Safeguarding Co-ordinator in your church without delay.
If any action is needed, your Safeguarding Coordinator will initiate it.
Is it OK to have only one worker in activities with children?
No, we’re not saying that. It’s important to have enough workers, both male and female, for mixed sex activities. However, it doesn’t mean to say that you can’t have a single worker with a small group of children, providing there are other adults to call upon in an emergency – like taking a child to the hospital, or the toilet.
Each organisation needs to decide on an appropriate ratio of adults to children – depending on the children’s ages and needs, as well as the activity, for example dangerous sports, will need a higher level of supervision. This said, it is really sad when children’s needs are neglected (or in some cases abuse compounded) because our child protection rules do not allow a worker to be with a child on their own.
Workers may fear that a child may make a false allegation. Well, many people work with children on their own all the time! Children rarely make false allegations - some might, but adults can lie too. If a child was going to lie, it would make no difference that there were two workers present – because a child in those circumstances could always claim that both workers were involved or one went out of the room at some point. Thirtyone:eight rarely get reports like this.
So, what thirtyone:eight recommend is that you have guidelines about what will normally happen, but where it is necessary in the interests of a child to depart from what the policy says (as in the above two examples) then the child’s needs should come first, but your leader should be informed as soon as possible.
‘We’re taking the young people away for the weekend staying in dormitories in a school in the country. How can we supervise them overnight?’
There are different ways to tackle this. Some organisations have workers sleeping in the same room to supervise the young people safely. Other organisations use waking night cover – there will always be workers doing the rounds of the tents or dormitories to ensure that everyone is protected. What is important is that before you go on holiday, parents are informed of the procedures to keep their children safe. If there are any queries raised, then it is better to explain what you’re planning and why, so that parents are reassured. Alternatively, you may want to revise your plans if parents are unhappy about the arrangement.
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